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HEXAGRAM 54 · Guī Mèi

The Marrying Maiden

Entering a relationship from an ill-fitting position can create lasting difficulties.

☳ Above: Zhen · Thunder☱ Below: Dui · Lake

Meaning

Thunder above the lake joins attraction with movement. Ancient marriage roles warn against following desire before examining position, conditions, and the eventual consequences.

FOR REFLECTION

Do I understand the role, authority, and limits in the commitment I am considering?

The six lines

Read from line 1 at the bottom to line 6 at the top. These are paraphrases, not verbatim translations.

Line 1 Yang

A younger woman enters a secondary marriage role, like someone lame who can still walk. Limited position can still permit useful contribution.

Line 2 Yang

A weak eye can still see; the secluded person remains steadfast. Limited circumstances need not erase integrity.

Line 3 Yin

Marriage is delayed and returns to a subordinate role. Do not let a desire for acceptance hide an unsuitable position.

Line 4 Yang

The marriage date passes, yet a suitable time remains possible. Delay may be necessary for an appropriate commitment.

Line 5 Yin

Di Yi's sister wears less splendid sleeves than her attendant; the moon nears fullness. Character and timing outweigh display.

Line 6 Yin

The basket is empty and the slaughtered sheep gives no blood. A ceremony without substance cannot sustain a commitment.

References

Classical Zhouyi · 歸妹

James Legge, The Yî King (1882), Sacred Books of the East XVI, hexagram 54

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